For months leading up to Valentine's Day, I'd been dreaming of
pink and red crafts,
red velvet cupcakes,
chocolate sugar cookies...and the list could go on (like to
this or
this).
However, when Valentine's day finally came around, I hadn't made any of the above listed items. In fact, I felt lucky to simply snag a package of 99-cent metallic heart confetti from the grocery store. Oh well. At least I learned something: warm and fuzzy Valentine's Day type feelings don't exactly envelop you the day before you take NCLEX. So don't schedule it for February 15th.
I spent V-day day studying, trying to relax by taking walks outside, doing laundry, grocery shopping, and failing miserably to nap. But the day wasn't completely terrible! Pete and I planned and made a nice dinner together: grilled garlic chicken atop whole wheat pasta with homemade alfredo sauce, garlic rolls, salad, and green beans. We finished our V-day with a nice Family Home Evening which included video-chatting with Brian and Ashley, a nice pre-NCLEX blessing for me, and an early bed-time.
The next morning, although he slept even worse than I did, my sweet husband not only woke up early with me, but
drove me to the NCLEX testing center in Draper and back home after the test. I think it cut my anxiety in half to have him chatting with me the whole way there---encouraging me and also distracting me from my anxiety. Walking out of the testing center to him (and the post-test treats he snagged for me) was even better. I was so grateful that when he could have slept in on his morning off work, he chose to do something he probably viewed as very simple, but something that was a great service to me.
Hopefully in the years to come, Valentine's Day will be a more relaxing, fun holiday. Because of this year, I also hope it will serve as a reminder to me of what love and marriage is all about---giving to and serving each other. Perhaps this will prompt me to have more important V-day (and everyday) aspirations
in addition to an extravagant mass of pink and red crafts/food :)
"Some think of happiness as a glamorous life of ease, luxury, and constant thrills; but true marriage is based on a happiness which is more than that, one which comes from giving, serving, sharing, sacrificing, and selflessness."
-Spencer W. Kimball, Oneness in Marriage, Liahona, Oct. 2002
(Oh...and I passed NCLEX:)