Showing posts with label gratitude. Show all posts
Showing posts with label gratitude. Show all posts

Monday, October 31, 2011

Sweet Sunday



I'm sure I've mentioned this before, but I just LOVE Sundays. For Pete, Sundays are a great re-charger for an upcoming week of tests and studying. For me, Sundays are a special treat because I get to spend so much of the day with (a relatively stress-free) husband. Knowing that Sunday will come really helps me during the busy weeks, where it seems like time with Pete is minimal. Even Emery appreciates Sundays, where she usually gets out of taking one of her naps and gets lots of daddy time at church and at home. Basically, Sundays are all around good for the Hoyt household.

Yesterday was a particularly nice Sunday. Emery did well at church, and even slept for one of the hours. We really enjoyed the lessons and talks given (and I remembered to pack church snacks...which we all know makes church waaaaay better). After church, we had a visit from our awesome home teacher---always a good experience. Then, Emery and I had naps and we went on a little family walk at Stone Mountain Park. After coming home and putting Emery to sleep, we called our families back at home. I caught the Jensen kids and parents just as they were starting to carve pumpkins and got to talk to almost everyone for a little bit. Talking to my family always makes me homesick, but is a great way to end the day.

I'm surprised at how simple things can enrich life so much...


 ...like brownies from a neighbor,


or beautiful fall leaves.



Sweet family moments,


beautiful, hazy skies,



Or quiet, relaxing, sweet Sundays.

Friday, February 11, 2011

The kind of friends you want to keep forever...

are those that are focused on what really matters

Those that are still your friends after high school...despite the drama and dumb things you did.


Those that stay up late with you, writing in journals and sharing past entries.

Those who exchange homemade Christmas gifts.

Those who care enough to send you texts like this:

            "Hey steph! how are ya? Just thinking about ya. 
     Hope u and your hubby are doing well!"           

     "I've just been thinking about you today. 
     how are you feeling? how's that belly? how's that pete?"

     "Dear steph. I miss you. You are so great. Have a super day. love whit"

Those who will share an entire carton of ice cream with you, a Sunday walk, or a babysitting job.

Those you can sing really loud in front of.


Those who will go on crazy adventures with you.



Those who still call after you're married.

Those who write letters whether thousands of miles away, or just down the street.



Those who can tell when you've been crying, but instead of asking questions, simply ask if they can help.


Those you've not only shared lots of good days with, but bad days as well (like running-over-your-pet-dog together types of days).

Those who really know you, really well. And like you anyway.



Monday, January 31, 2011

"There is more to life than increasing its speed"

So what do I do now that I'm done with school and not working?


Staples SpinWorx Rotating Desk Organizer
Organizer from Staples that has eternally
 revolutionized our desk space.

I clean. Gone are the days that our laundry would sit in the dryer for a week, aching to be folded. These days I can get through 4 or more 
loads of laundry in one day---from dirty to folded and put away! I've created cleaning checklists for every room in my apartment (from a Level 1 basic clean to a Level 4 intensive clean) and have been trying to go a little more in depth each week in my cleaning. We're talking dusting, wiping baseboards, removing light fixtures and washing them, etc. What about Organizing? or De-cluttering? Foreign words indeed to a busy, stressed out student. But in the past few weeks, the amount of trash and DI bags our little apartment has seen leave the doorstep is quite astounding. 


I cook. We've been "going grain" (okay, bad joke). With my Kitchenaid and new wheat grinder as my tools, I've been mixing up whole wheat flax bread, waffles and tortillas. I've also been experimenting with other grains like oats (steel cut, oat bran, etc.), flax, and lentils.




Next up on the "grains to try" list are couscous (which I've never had much success with in the past) and quinoa. I even tried my hand (actually both hands, arms, biceps, shoulder muscles, and what core muscles aren't being stretched to oblivion) at homemade filled pasta. 
It was exhausting.
But the result was delicious. 
Now I'm yearning for one of these.
If you ever have some pent-up stress or anger, a stretch of hours on your hand, and/or want a good workout--try making pasta by hand with a rolling pin. I used this great tutorial and this delectable recipe.


At first I was more concerned about making them pretty. I used heart shaped cookie cutters and thought they were adorable. Then I cooked one and tried it---way too much pasta, not enough filling. Then I just starting cutting the dough with a knife, around the filled part, and squeezing the edges together with my fingers. They were a little more rustic in appearance, but much tastier.


The Menu
The Husband
The Food
I exercise. But today I'm trying to lay down and put my feet up a little more (hence this long blog post). My back just hasn't been the same since I hiked the Y last week and I really want it to get a little better so I can keep exercising. Usually, I go on up-hill walks with friends, or walk/run on the treadmill at Pete's work gym. Getting to see him a bit during the day is extra motivation to go work out :)

Sunset view from the Y parking lot through the pollution.
 (Thanks Ush and Ash for the phone call!)
I study. NCLEX is coming up on February 15th! I haven't been too zealous in my study habits, to be honest (it seems there are lots of other things to keep me busy). I'm trying the slow and steady approach instead. I've been doing about an hour a day since January 1st, plus a few study sessions with friends. As it is getting closer, I plan to take some more lengthy practice tests.  

I prepare.  Or at least try to. I'm probably a little bit behind in this area right now considering I only have 2 months before my due date. Making lists of baby things I need to get, slowly collecting items, and researching products is quite the task. I have also been reading baby books, parenting books, breastfeeding books, and talking to new moms. While I know nothing is really going to prepare me, the planner in me just has to try. This week Pete and I start prenatal classes. We'll see how that goes :)   

All in all, these days are wonderful. I'm busy enough to still be using my planner but oh-so-much-less stressed out than when I was a student. My daily schedule is flexible enough that when a friend calls and asks me to babysit that day or needs to be picked up from the airport, I can do it! I enjoy my church calling (Enrichment Leader--planning R.S. activities) and put forth more effort into it instead of stressing about it. 

Random tidbit: For some reason, tuna and pickles taste sooo good these days.
When all amount of carbs and chocolate have failed me, tuna saves the day!
My friend gave me this cute little present when I babysat her little boys :)

In a way, I think these 2-ish months after graduating are kind of the calm before the storm.
But a good storm
Lots of life transitions are ahead
First baby.
Moving away from Provo/Utah.
Pete starting school again.
Eventually finding a job.
While I'm a little nervous that everything is going to hit like a ton of bricks at the same time, for now I'm just enjoying the present.

And frankly, enjoying the present is pretty easy. 
Of course there are still hard things and bad days.
And the fact that finding a comfortable position for my back is proving impossible.
But overall, life is wonderful.


Surprise! Pete wasn't expecting a PT school phone interview on this morning (as evidenced by his attire and pokie just-got-out-of-bed hair). The school had never finalized a time for the phone interview, so Pete was a little caught off guard. I took this picture after the interview. Usually, Pete's wearing a suit and tie and prepared with questions and info. about the school, faculty, etc. We just decided to laugh about it and I had to get a picture.

While Pete is busy with jobs, church callings, and the logistics of PT school applications, we usually get to enjoy (homework free!) evenings together. 


And sometimes we go a date--on a weekday. 
Just for fun
When will life be like this again? 
Maybe when we're retired and all our kids are grown and gone...
if we can still walk by then. 

Basically, these days are precious; I love them. 
But I definitely don't take them for granted. 
I'm so grateful for all the blessings I have in life and the wonderful things that are ahead.


Tuesday, December 14, 2010

And...I'm Done!


Two weeks ago my brain was doing the standard “shutting down” that annoyingly always happens to me right before the end of a semester (when it would actually be semi-appropriate). All I could think about was Christmas trees, decorations, family, upcoming baby, cookies (?)…well, basically my mind was thinking of everything but finishing up my last papers and assignments.

Then I had a little moment.

I thought: After the bell rings at 2:50 pm on Thursday, Dec. 9, 2010, I will never sit in a classroom in the SWKT again—in fact, I may never go back to school again. My BYU student computer log-in will expire and I will not have ready access to loads of knowledge at my fingertips. My student ID will expire and I will no longer check out books from the Harold B. Lee Library... 

and then I was sad.

Don't get me wrong...nursing school is one of the hardest things I’ve ever done at my ripe old age of 22 and I am so excited to be done!

But change is hard for me.

The thing I’ve been thinking about the most lately in regards to finishing school is how much of a mind-and-body stretching experience it has been and how blessed I was to have the support and encouragement of wonderful family and friends to help me through it. As I've pondered on the last 4.5ish years of college, I can't help but think of a few extremely key people that really influenced my decision to be a nurse and my ability to get through school.

So thanks, Mom…

  • For bringing me down to college as a nervous new freshman
  • For letting me call you after almost every test I took in my pre-requisite classes and joining in my joy or frustration.
  • For always reminding me that it wasn’t the end of the world.
  • For letting me phone you this semester during my morning drives all the way home from a night shift when you were probably busy making breakfast and getting 5 other kids off to school…or work (just kidding dad)
  • For sending me little packages and notes in the mail
  • For praying for me and believing I could succeed.


Thanks, Dad…

  • For being proud of me.
  • For always pushing me to be my best.
  • For driving down to Provo my freshman year to pick me up and bring me home when I couldn't find a ride at Christmas.
  • For being a hard worker and helping me financially those first couple years.
  • For giving me the “Biggest Loser” money that you won, so I could buy a bike.
  • For listening to my nursing stories and being interested in my life.


and thanks, Peter…

  • For not being (outwardly) annoyed at my long hours spent in the library during our dating days
  • For making numerous trips up to campus to bring me my forgotten assignments from my (and later, our) apartment :)
  • For putting up with a tired wife after clinical
  • For the countless breakfasts/lunches/dinners you've packed or cooked for me
  • For waking up to drive me to school on snowy mornings when you could have just slept in instead. Even more, for getting me to class on time (even when that meant standing at the door announcing “your ride will leave in 30 seconds” while I’m simultaneously trying to brush my teeth and put my shoes on).
  • For joining in my joys and frustrations
  • For keeping me laughing and having fun through it all. I especially liked the Nursing Diagnosis you formulated for me: "Failure to hang out with your husband"

So what now?

The plan is to have a wonderful Christmas break in Nyssa, then study like crazy and take PASS my nursing boards in February. Next, I will exchange backpack for diaper bag and prepare for life's next task...being a mom. I'm pretty sure this will be much harder than nursing school...and as far as I know there's no graduation. 
Ever. 

This Spring, our little family will be moving to...somewhere...where we will get settled, and I will find some part time work while Pete goes to Physical Therapy school (He got accepted at Creighton University in Omaha, Nebraska and Loma Linda University in Califonia! We'll see where else he gets in and make a decision from there).

4 years ago...

Fall 2006
The morning I left home to go to Provo. This picture makes me cringe (because I look absolutely terrible) and laugh (because everyone looks so young and Wyatt's trying to be cross-eyed).

Fall 2006
On BYU campus "studying" Geology with roommate Brooklyn.

Fall 2006
Same Geology book a few weeks later. When I learned how studying really was (exhausting).


Fall 2006
In Nutrition 100 with friends Yoko and Sabrina. This was one of my first college classes. 
(And this may have been the day I met a boy named Peter)



And NOW!
August 2010




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